I give a shout out to @Jeff for helping me. I’m not finished with the site but this was the biggest headache.

So thank you JEFF!!! Hopefully, this contributes to helping others in any theme.

Login to your FTP
-public
–wp content
—plugins
—-buddy press
—–bp templates
——bp-legacy
——-css
——–buddypress.min.css
right click on the buddypress.min.css file
choose view / edit
edit file there

SPECIAL NOTE: if Buddy Press Updates the plugin you will have to start all over again! Create a Child theme.

Someone else can put how to create a child theme.