The area you have indicated in this screenshot → http://morningstarlights.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/space2.png is not part of the Mingle header, it is part of the BuddyPress layout. I have no idea what is causing that large empty area because I cannot investigate a screenshot. All I can do is guess that you might be able to move member avatar up the page by experimenting with its top margin. For example…
#buddypress #item-header-cover-image #item-header-avatar { margin-top: 50px }
Go to Appearance > Design Settings > Edit All Default Design Settings and add that CSS your Custom CSS box. Experiment with the top margin value, see if that helps.
Or maybe adding a negative top margin to the BuddyPress “cover-image-container” might work…
#buddypress #cover-image-container { margin-top: -150px }
I think you’ll need to experiment with tweaking the CSS like this. Mingle is a very, very old theme and there may be other areas where the styling isn’t right when it is used with modern-day BuddyPress and/or bbPress. If you use Internet Explorer, Chrome, Firefox, Safari or Opera you can use the browser’s built-in developer tools to point at and “inspect” elements on a web page to find out what styles they use. You can even tweak the styles live to experiment with any changes you might fancy. If you learn to use this basic developer tool you will save yourself a lot of time.
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